About the Book
"It is time to enjoy what aging has to offer us, and actually welcome it into our lives."
In the 1950's, Dr. Benjamin Spock began to speak out against popular but
harmful child rearing practices. He offered anxious new parents sensible, compassionate
advice. His book sold 40 million copies - and changed child rearing forever.
When the boomers grew up and started having children of their own, they rejected the
conventional clinical approach to childbirth and searched for another way. They found Dr.
Lamaze and brought his radical ideas about childbirth into the mainstream. Lamaze classes
became a generational rite of passage.
Now as boomers tiptoe into their 50s and 60s, Dr. William H. Thomas, world famous in
the field of long-term care, is offering a clear-eyed view of aging and radical ideas
about why baby boomers should embrace it. "The old way of seeing old age, as a time of
relentless decline, ignores the value of the last half of life." He adds, "Old age may be
difficult but there is plenty of good in it as well."
In his provocative new book entitled What Are Old People For?, the 44-year-old,
Harvard-trained physician explains why we age and shows that our mastery of aging is one
of the most human things about us. He explores how the obsession with youth harms young
and old alike and argues that aging boomers will change our society - one more time.
"Creating a new old age will be the baby boomers' last act on the public stage," says
Thomas.
The American tendency to equate being old with being sick, mirrors the view of
pregnancy and childbirth that held sway when the boomers were born. Obstetricians treated
childbearing as an illness and drained almost every drop of humanity from the experience
of childbirth. Lamaze and others countered with a focus on women and their families and a
recognition of the joyful aspect of birthing. Empowering the mother and strengthening her
emotional support turned out to be a terrific way of reducing the very real pain of
childbirth.
Dr. Thomas shows that this approach succeeded because it embraced both traditional
ideas about birthing and clinical obstetrics. He writes that the Lamaze method did not
"...seek to restore the birthing practices of long ago. Few would ever have accepted such
a dangerous step backward. Instead it became a hybrid of old and new, different from
anything that had come before. We are now preparing for a similar revolution that will
transform old age and the lives of elders the world over."
Drawing from popular culture, history, science and literature to explore what aging
really is, Thomas presents elderhood as a developmental stage of life that is an essential
part of a healthy society, as important in its own way as childhood and active adulthood.
He maintains that seeing old age solely in terms of disease, disability and decline,
damages our society.
At the heart of the fear of aging that grips so many adults is the dilemma of
dependence and independence. Being independent requires you to live in your own home, no
matter how dangerous and lonely that might become. Becoming dependent can easily lead to
the loss of one's home and a terrifying move into a nursing home. These institutions are
famous for stripping people of choice, freedom and self-determination.
In What Are Old People For?, Dr. Thomas introduces a new vision of "intentional
communities," of up to 10 elders who chose to live together with the help of several
younger adults and strive to become a true community. "Baby boomers are the ideal
generation to create this new model," says Thomas. "With a higher level of education than
any previous generation, a higher level of wealth, and the well-established habit of
re-inventing social norms, I think baby boomers are going to find the concepts of
intentional communities and the approach to old age as a development stage instead of
decline appealing and consistent with their values. I just don't see boomers accepting the
fate of a nursing home."
The "Eldertopia" that Dr. Thomas imagines is encouraged by evidence from a number of
extremely successful intentional communities, called Green Houses, that Thomas has created
in collaboration with partners around the country. "The idea that only large-scale nursing
homes can be cost-effective and provide adequate medical care is false. It is time to
liberate elders from institutionalization that saps their dignity and breeds helplessness,"
says Thomas.
In their place, Thomas advocates small group homes for the aged mainstreamed into
residential neighborhoods where elders can maintain their status as part of the community,
share a meal and a story with familiar companions, and relish the simple pleasures and
satisfaction of being old. With this new model, elders will be able to share their wisdom
and their legacy with the children and adults who surround them, restoring them to an
important place in our society.
About the Author
Dr. William H. Thomas is an international authority on geriatric medicine and
eldercare. He currently serves as president of The Center for Growing and Becoming, Inc.,
a not-for-profit organization dedicated to promoting and developing constructive, holistic
approaches to aging and the care of our elders. He is also president of The Eden
Alternative, a research, consulting, and advocacy group committed to improving the care
received by people who live in institutions everywhere.
Board certified in family medicine and geriatrics, Dr. Thomas lives in upstate New York
where he serves as Medical Director for the Loretto Nursing Facility and is Assistant
Clinical Professor in Family Medicine for Upstate Medical Center.
As a consultant for AARP, Dr. Thomas travels the country addressing academics,
healthcare professionals, and researchers. His lectures confront the issues of aging and
the aged, as well as the wise use of pharmaceuticals. In recent years, for example, he has
addressed the national conventions of the American Society on Aging, the American
Association of Homes and Services for the Aging, and the Alzheimer's Association, among
many other organizations related to the field of aging. Dr. Thomas just returned from a
six-city speaking tour in Japan and will be lecturing in Europe in Winter 2005.
What Are Old People For? How Elders Will Save the World is the third book by Dr.
Thomas. It was written under a grant from the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, which is
actively supporting his work in this area. Life Worth Living, which was published in 1996,
was named "Book of the Year" by the American Journal of Nursing. His second book, Learning
from Hannah, was published in 1999. It was recognized as a finalist in visionary fiction
by Independent Publisher.
In conjunction with his earlier books and projects, Dr. Thomas has been interviewed by
a broad range of television, radio and print media including CNN, 48 Hours, NPR, Fast
Company and the Washington Post.
The innovative quality of Dr. Thomas' work and ideas has been recognized by a number of
distinguished awards. He is the recipient of a three-year fellowship from the global
nonprofit organization Ashoka, which searches the world for individuals with unprecedented
ideas for community change. In 1997, he won the America's Award, established by Norman
Vincent Peale and sometimes called "The Nobel Prize for Goodness." Dr. Thomas has also
been honored by the Giraffe Project, which gives awards to people who "stick their neck
out" to advance the common good.
Dr. Thomas graduated from Harvard Medical School in 1986, and he was selected by the
Mead Johnson Foundation as one of the top Family Medicine residents in the country during
his three-year residency at the University of Rochester. Dr. Thomas lives with his wife
and five children on a 250-acre working farm that employs draft horses and solar and wind
power.
Excerpts From The Book
On society's view of aging as a disease:
"Dermatologist Nicholas Perricone opens his New York Times best-selling book
The Wrinkle Cure by claiming, 'Wrinkled, sagging skin is not the inevitable result
of growing older. It's a disease and you can fight it.' If that is true, wrinkles
represent a most unusual form of illness... Diseases need treatment and treatments cost
money. Aided and abetted by hundreds of millions of dollars in marketing, the anti-wrinkle
business sows fear and reaps a rich financial harvest." -Page 7
On the need for a new perspective on what aging is:
"The development of a new perspective on age and aging is both necessary and
possible. Given the importance of aging in our lives, and the impact of aging on our
families and society, a new openness and even curiosity about human aging would seem more
than warranted. The time has come for our wondrous longevity to emerge from the long
shadow cast by the vigor and virtues of youth." -Page 36
On the role of grandparents:
"The human impulse to share food, energy, resources, and risk across the
generations (summarized in the grandmother hypothesis) outranks all other human
developments in its importance. ... A million years ago the first grandmother attended to the
cries of a hungry grandchild. In doing so she increased the reproductive success of her
own daughter. Over time, those families that were blessed with older females who were
inclined to give this kind of assistance grew in number and power. Families that could not
master this strategy were overwhelmed. They became evolutionary dead ends. We take the
constellation of traits that define our humanity for granted, little realizing that they
are, in fact, the gifts of perhaps sixty thousand generations of elders." -Page 57
On the traditional model of elder care:
"Society has traditionally assigned responsibility for the support and
protection of the aged to the family. This ethic grew out of long experience with the high
birth rates, stable extended family structures, and small numbers of older people that
characterized early agricultural and pastoral societies... To grow old in a traditional
society that "takes care of its own" is to rely almost exclusively on a stable network of
family relations and a deep reservoir of unpaid female caregiving... .Those who come to
depend on their families are expected to minimize the burden they place on those who love
and care for them. There is a deep-seated belief that to complain is to make oneself into
a burden, and to become a burden is a terrible thing." -Page 75
On the pitfall of defining the needs of the elderly in financial terms alone:
"[Social Security and Medicare] have indeed done immeasurable good for older
people and their families. Far less obvious is the way that publicly provided resources
and services have gradually replaced the idea that the bonds that unite young and old must
also include important non-economic dimensions. We have created, and continue to maintain,
a massive bureaucracy that serves the financial needs of the elderly. The fact that it
does so completely without affection or tenderness is seen as beside the point." -Page 87
On the institutionalization of the elderly:
"People are placed in nursing homes, often against their will, because they no
longer display the behaviors expected of independent adults. The decision to surrender a
loved one to a nursing home is emotionally traumatic and is usually made only after all
other options have been exhausted. That alternatives are few (relative to demand) and
underfunded (relative to what is spent on institutionalization) is rarely acknowledged."
-Page 159
On the often dehumanizing impact of nursing homes:
"Because nursing homes are operated as therapeutic institutions, machinelike efficiency
is their ideal. The best facilities are thought to be those that deviate to the minimum
extent possible from predetermined schedules and routines... This approach to daily life has
a deadening effect on all who must live and work under its sway. Everyone needs to feel
the fresh breeze of the unexpected, even if it does not blow every day. Spontaneous events
and happenings are the source of interesting conversation. Conversations grow into stories
that can be told and retold. Stories become memories. To live in a typical nursing home is
to endure a famine of new memories." -Page 183
On the need to act now:
"People often say to me, 'Hey, Dr. Thomas, you'd better get this all fixed
before I get old.' I laugh and tell them that I will do my best. People like to imagine
that such problems all lie in the future and, if they are lucky, might be sorted out
before they enter their own old age. What they do not realize is that the fault lies not
in our aging, but in the denial of aging." -Page 200